I’m teaching my boy to read these days. Reading is a passion of mine. If I was not so responsible I’d be up late with the light on to finish a book. Who am I kidding? I’m not very responsible.
Luxury these days would be reading as long as I wanted rather than only as long as I could manage to put off other things. I dream of the day when I will be the one at the pool with a book instead of the one with the bag of peanut butter and jelly sandwiches.
But my boy, he seems oblivious to reading. He’s compliant so he sits and participates in the lessons and he’s learning. He’s also the one who told me quite clearly from the beginning that “some people read and some people build things. I am the kind that builds things.” He thought that would get me off his back. It did not though I’m pretty sure he will pursue a Bachelor of Science degree if he goes to college.
So, I sit five mornings a week and wait patiently for him to remember the sounds, figure out ways to help him blend sounds together, offer encouragement and correction, flash through cards. It’s exhausting! He even tells me to back off and not say “good!” after every successfully sounded out word. Fair enough. A guy’s got to maintain his dignity. I get it.
Recently, I noticed my son looking at some words and then trying to sound them out in his spare time. Up until that point, he’d been content to just see a jumble of words and let it be. Why try when Legos beckoned? Now, he looks, he assumes meaning can be found and he tries to unlock the code. I smile. It’s clicking. I’ve been waiting for it to click all year.
Perseverance. That’s what it is my son does with such constancy in his learning that speaks to my spiritual life. Persevere. Keep sounding out what needs sounding out. Keep reading the next word on the page even if I read it poorly and someone corrects me. Even if I read it well and someone says “good!” in a way that makes me feel like a child. Keep going until something about God, grace, and life clicks. Celebrate. Then, move on to the next word and keep going.